人之所以痛苦，在于追求了错误的东西。

 

　　People are suffering, is the pursuit of the wrong things.

 

　　你若不是可有可无，他又怎会忽冷忽热。

 

　　If you are not not essential, he would sometimes hot and sometimes cold.

 

　　别和我谈恋爱，虚伪。有本事咱俩结婚。